"Love is friendship set on fire"... or is it that "friendship is love dipped in ice"...?

- Don't let the ice melt completely and leave just the fire of passion: it will burn everything in its path, eventually;

- Dont let the flame go off, and leave just a cold and plain friendship, which will never again allow the fire to burn like it once did;

The path of wisdom is one of peace and balance, one of freely expressed emotions but carefully taken steps.